<center><b>Aspaheir</b></center>
Okay, to be honest, I have known that this thread was up for some time. I have avoided posting in here because, quite frankly, I feel that dealing with you is becoming a waste of my time.
Usually when I start to feel this way about someone, they get blacklisted from my threads and I no longer condone or offer my support to any thread that they might have from then on out. Most people find this troubling because I’m quite active around here and my opinion matters to more than a few people. The pro to this is that I no longer have to deal with you if I don’t choose to. Once it has gone that far, Aspaheir, you have a snowball’s chance in hell of getting back into my good graces.
In case you weren’t able to pull it out of the above paragraph: that was a threat. You are very close to getting thrown out of all of my threads and therefore out of my sight. Don’t get too hopeful though, this would not rid you of me. As long as you cause trouble in the RPG forums, you are going to have me to deal with.
Now, like I said, I avoided dealing with your nonsense. There were some indications, however, that told me it was getting ridiculous and that I needed to take action. One of them is the people replying negatively to your posts.
When your incessant off topic posts, bringing up old threads, making space-wasting threads, and double posting becoming an annoyance to Alorith and Draches, <i>and</i> they start lecturing you for it, you know that you have gone too far. Normally I am incredibly lenient with this, but there are some people around here who just don’t know when to stop. Let me tell you, there is going to be some fast learning going on fairly soon if it doesn’t cease.
When other new people, like Chalgrish, start realizing that you are acting out of line, this is another indication that you need to knock it off. If someone can’t see it by this time, I know that it is getting pretty bad.
So far you have not only crossed both of these lines, but you have also gone into the “hopelessly ridiculous†section of the stupid meter. How can I tell? Elise has posted in here and you pissed her off.
Let me tell you, Elise doesn’t post often, but when she does she means every word of it, so you better listen up because she knows what she is talking about. She is also an exceedingly tactful person, very gifted in telling people the truth in a nice way. When you go so far as to annoy her into writing a negative post towards you, it has gone far too far.
Now, I gave you more leniencies than I should have. I offered you training sessions with Christian because I thought that it might help you to become a decent Role Player. I don’t do this for every n00b that walks in the door; you got a special privilege from me.
So far you have repaid my efforts by being disrespectful to those trying to help you, including some of my close friends and myself, you have cluttered the message board with nonsense making more work for those of us who like to keep it in good condition, you have repeatedly ignored decent advice, doing everything in your power to openly disregard warnings and you have been an all out nuisance everywhere and to almost everyone.
You have been given fair warning about all of this more than once. You have frequently disregarded the warnings and openly disobeyed good advice.
You can respond in one of two ways to this. You can pick your butt off the ground and start acting your age instead of your shoe size, or you can continue acting the way you have and become isolated because no one will want to deal with you anymore. If you choose the latter, know that I will be the first, and you will be done in my threads.
I personally don’t want a phony apology from you, as I know from experience that what you say has no merit, and you’ll end up doing it again anyways. I do feel, however, that you owe one to everyone you have disrespected. You can start with Christian, because he put in a load of time and effort to try and help you and you repaid him by making yourself look like an idiot, which comes off badly on him.
As of now your training sessions with him are suspended. You have shown through your actions that you don’t care enough about the members or rules on this board to continue in a place of honor. I don’t want someone who is disrespectful and unappreciative using my friends and resources to train to become an established member of my Arena or any of my threads. If you are going to be unwilling to learn, then I am not going to condone teaching you.
And to answer your question, Pandora has enough smarts to only send messages to people who don’t mind or might welcome them.
And to answer any other “If they did it why can’t I?†questions you might have, know that the people who don’t get yelled at are the ones that aren’t stupid enough to get caught. That, and most people contribute enough good to the community so that we can overlook some of their flaws.
You might try working on this yourself.
Now, go back and read what I have said as many times as it takes to imprint it in your mind for good. Then you can go back and read what Elise said, and everything else that people have told you. I don’t want to hear from you or see you again until then.
And if you are thinking of replying to this with anything other than a meaningful, well thought out apology of equal length, then don’t bother.
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